Lessons Learnt & What Next

Corona-coaster.

Life as a Planner when Covid became such a huge concern was interesting. Life as an optimist was very worrying. The first wave of utter despair came when I spoke to couples who were having such dilemmas and disputes just to move their date. The effects of cancelling and moving such an important, personal and joyous event can only be understood by those who have been through such a hard time. Having spoken to one Bride-to-be (who I heard talking about her wedding issues on Radio 2!) that had been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress, I knew this was going to a tough time for so many.

One thing is for sure, its highlighted the need for kindness and understanding from both sides of each booking. Its shown the priorities of many, whether compassion or revenue. Its tested relationships and businesses strength. Its disrupted routines and altered focuses. Its highlighted skill sets and pushed creativity.

Just a Party.

I started to see how the industry in general was viewed externally too. The description used from someone was ‘just a party’ which spun me into thinking through how I really felt about these celebrations. I surmised that the reasons why I love them is because you will most likely never get all your favourite people together for one celebration again in your lifetime. The joining of two sides will not be possible for sure. Those memories and meetings will be remembered by everyone, forever.

Weddings are Easy.

Then I thought about why weddings are seen as ‘just a party’ to so many people. I feel that part of the job of those supporting and supplying these events is to remain calm and quiet. We dont often shout about how tough the role is or the negative effects on us. We dont want the couples to know the behind the scenes trials in fear that it not only effects future work but also their contentment on the day. Does this then show the wrong perspective on how intense and difficult weddings are for the professionals?

And now.

After being able to thankfully move all my clients and even pick up new ones, I am ok. Its tough with a year of not being in the thick of it but I’m sure my knowledge hasn’t faded too much! I am in the midst of creating new venues, starting the process with new clients, Christmas preparations and buying our first home. I do love a challenge!

2021 will be.

Looking to the future, one things is for sure. We will have more weddings. I know that being optimistic is difficult when you have had a year of such dramatic ups and downs but I’m there! I have some awesome plans and some wonderful events coming. We have got this! Terms have been amended by most of us to allow for changes but I am truly hopeful for getting back to ‘normal’ by Summer at least.

For those still struggling, I am virtually sending you a hug and please know that I am happy to help in any way I can. If you still have some passion for your business or wedding but are feeling the weight, share it.

I hope this finds you happy, safe and sane. I wish you all a very festive, jolly Christmas and an epic 2021!

A x

Life as a Planner - My Covid Reflections